Growing Trend... Blaming Women to Justify Violence

The Memorial Day weekend began with horrific murders in Isla Vista, California. Elliot Rodger, a misogynistic 22 year, turned his anger towards sorority women who he felt rejected him decided he would “punish” women who he felt a sense of entitlement to their bodies went on a mass killing spree. He killed six individuals, severely wounded nine others and committed suicide with a self-inflicted gunshot to his head.

On Friday, Rodger sent a one hundred and forty page manifesto to family and friends detailing how he would extract “retribution on reckoning day.” Prior to his manifesto, Rodger a college student at Santa Barbara City College, posted messages on forums and You Tube sprouting his delusional views, his lonely existence, and constant questioning why women were not interested in him. Rodger could not understand why a good looking “Eurasian with a shiny black BMW” could not get a date in a town filled with pretty blondes who rather spend time with a Black man instead of him.

Rodger had been in counseling since the age of eight years old. Rodger’s father was the assistant director of Games of Thrones and his mother once dated George Lucas and worked with Stephen Spielberg. Rodger was the very essence of white privilege. A young man who seemed to have it all, had bottled up rage that intensified over the years and he blamed women for it. Rodger’s indignation against women led him to plan to kill all of the members of the Tri Delta sorority house located near the campus of the University of California, Santa Barbara.

Crime scene from Isla Vista shooting.

After stabbing to death his roommates, Rodger left his home on Friday evening determined to kill the sorority women. His attempts to get inside of the sorority house was foiled so he turned his hate on three women walking by and shot them several times at point blank range. Two of the three he shot, died outside of their sorority house. 

UCSB students gather at candle light vigil.

After he shot the sorority women, he drove around firing from his BMW while using his car as a weapon as he drove over anyone that was in his way. The hatred oozing from one man towards women has left six families struggling to comprehend losing a child away at college in such a senseless planned attack and a college community stunned at the rage that was inflicted on the innocent.

Rage against innocent women is being played out internationally as well. As we enter the sixth week of the Nigerian kidnapped school girls by terrorists, Boka Horam, the helplessness of their parents can be felt around the globe. Men with guns decided to burn a school to the ground and carry off young women and girls who were being educated as a show of masculine power to world leaders. Men with guns did not rage war against other men with guns, another country, their government or other militia. No, Boka Horam, which means Western education is sinful, decided to show what their definition of brute force by taking young women and girls in the middle of the night. To the dismay of the world, the Nigerian government and other countries have not been as quick to look for them as countries were willing to comb the bottom of the sea for months to search for passengers on a missing plane.

  

Nigerian School Girls in video provided by Boka Horam

To further torture the families of the kidnapped Nigerian school girls, Boka Horam videoed their kidnapped victims to proclaim that the young women and girls would be sold into slavery or married off to the lowest bidder if Boka Haram political prisoners were not released.  The young women and girls were the focus of violence; not the military, not the government, or other factions but the females in the countryside were targeted to accomplish the sadistic will of a terrorist organization.

  

Violence towards women is not just committed or cheered on by men. Bravo TV has help perfected violence-for-entertainment that pay great dividends to the network. The Real Housewives series have been steadily ramping up the friction between the women on the scripted show. Each year, the antics of the cast have continued to include more and more physical confrontations. In March at a taping, members of the Real Housewives of Atlanta took their personal grievances to another level that was aired in April. Porsha Williams after being taunted by Kenya Moore, assaulted Kenya Moore in a moment that was deemed “the weave snatch seen around the world.” Porsha decided to put an end to Kenya’s put downs and literally drug her by the hair across the floor while kicking and clawing the entire time. Instead of many condemning the attack, social media weighed in and many believed Porsha was justified in her actions. Bravo condemned the attack but continued to replay the show over and over every weekend since the initial showing of the reunion show in April. The network has been rewarded handsomely for continuing to show the violent profanity laced episode. The ratings of the Real Housewives of Atlanta netted Bravo it highest ratings since debuting the franchise and has spun off a number of ‘pundit style’ shows where the cast member discuss the fight. Each spin off or follow up show was heavily advertised and all have been highly rated. The demographics of viewers of Real Housewives of Atlanta are ages 24-54 year olds. There is no denying that the majority who watch the show, often called Sunday’s guilty pleasure, are women.

In order to address the ever increasing violence towards women that can take the form of revenge perpetrated by the misogyny ranting of an obsess sexless fiend, to political kidnappings around the world, to degrading reality shows disguised as entertainment, women must be willing to denounce all violence towards women. Women must stand united and strong in the narrative and not cherry pick one violent act over the other. Women must be the first to come to the aid of another woman. Often, that starts right in the places we often overlook; women groups, our communities, on the job, and in our places of worship. Until women condemn violence toward women first, violence towards women will continue to escalate and will be used to justify entertainment, political grandstanding, or a mass killing spree.


Photo credits: LA Times, New York Times, Gif Bravo TV 

Mainstream Media Asks Why Lack of Initial Coverage Of Nigerian Kidnappings: Answer, Mainstream Media Ignored The Story

"What came first, the chicken or the egg,” is the age old question. Now that the extremely tragic and horrific events that are taking place in and around Nigeria have been brought to light via social justice advocates storming social media to vent their outrage, the media has the unmitigated gall to inquire about why this story was under reported. 

Before addressing that head on, let us give proper acknowledgement to the use of the hash tag #bringbackourgirls with its trending around the globe to get networks to start reporting on the kidnapping that was first reported by media outlets like The Guardian on April 15, 2014, a day after the girls were taken by terrorists. 

So, what comes first, the public interest or the media’s coverage bringing to the public the story that will ignite their interest?

While the media has started to give more coverage to the kidnapped Nigerian school girls over the last several days because of world wide protests demanding the girls be found, each story was accompanied with a media personality asking why the media did not pick up the story initially. When the question is asked, "Why has there been very little coverage of the kidnapped Nigerian school girls?", the network asking the question is trying to exclude itself from the media (the other guys)  that did not reported on the kidnapping. The network news black out on the kidnapping is a stark contrast to the 24 hour coverage that has been given to the missing passengers on MH370 since March 8, 2014. With unpredictable seas, lost of confidence in the Malaysian government's transparency, and the likelihood of any survivors, many have accepted the fate of the passengers while still hoping MH370 is found. But the missing MH370 still receives widespread coverage on most cable networks.

When networks question its lack of informing the public, it shows how far the media has loss sight of the role of journalism and how today's media rather entertain the public than inform the public. Journalism is a method of inquiry and literary style that aims to provide a service to the public by the dissemination and analysis of news and other information. Today's rating driven media fails miserly in its duties to the public. This weekend as part of the reporting on kidnapped Nigerian school girls, the media hid behind that failure by asking questions about the lack of coverage in the reporting. The answer to their staged questioning is very simple, the networks did not see value in covering the story and begun reporting more frequently after being shamed by social media and the rallies held around the world over the weekend.

One example of justification for lack of reporting on ghastly events in Nigeria was given by CNN's Reliable Sources host, Brian Stelter. Stelter credited CNN for having reporters in Nigeria before asking Nigerian based CNN correspondent, Vladimir Duthiersis, more about the story. During Vladimire's segment, he  made the following statement regarding lack of coverage:

In Nigeria - in Africa, but specifically in Nigeria - there are a lot of challenges when it comes to reporting a story like this. This has happened in a part of the country that is very remote. There are challenges in getting signals there.

CNN, a network that reported for over a decade from the harsh barren terrain of Iraq and Afghanistan, countries known for rocks and 120 degree heat in the shade, does not have equipment to cover kidnapped school girls in Nigeria, a country that is known for rocks and heat? During Operation Iraqi Freedom, CNN had embedded reporters who actually lived with the troops for months in some of the most desolate parts of the world. Because of their reporting, we saw war up close and personal. All the time. The kidnapped girls' story has elements of many stories CNN has profiled around the clock other than MH370 plane. CNN and Headline News has given unprecedented coverage to missing children. In the case of Florida's missing toddler, Caylee Anthony, we learned every detail about a child whose mother, Casey Anthony, was charged but was found innocent of her death. We also learned everything about her mother, dubbed "Tot Mom" by the network, as well. Casey Antony's  monthly cycle, her mother, her father, her brother, her boyfriends, her clubbing were all part of the 24 hour news coverage of that case for several years. JonBenet Ramsey and most recently, Jodi Arias, all have received relentless news coverage on CNN and Headline News.

CNN is not alone by any means in 24 hours coverage of a particular storyline favored by a network. Fox News maybe not be known for covering many issues outside of politics but no one can not deny their devotion for covering terrorists and helping promote the war on terror. Long after 9/11, Fox News keeps their loyal audience prepared for possible terrorists activity around the globe. Even after nearly two decades at war, Fox News hates the audacity that our country has been slow to intervene with military force to help save those fighting against Islamic extremists in recent years. When innocent school girls are kidnapped by terrorists who can find a wireless signal to shoot a You Tube video boasting about their crimes (when CNN can't), this should have been a story competing with Fox's coverage of Benghazi.

The kidnappers, terrorists named Boko Haram, which means Western education is sinful, seems to have all of the requirements for an all out religious extremists color coded Fox News coverage. Fox News has had an insatiable appetite for the United States to send troops in the following conflicts:  Syrians rebels fighting against Assad, nuclear stand off with Iran, unrest in Egypt, Arab Spring, Russian Urkaine. Fox News covering the kidnapped school girls would have been a reminder to its base that the world is under constant threat of terrorism. Boko Haram should have received non stop coverage complete with Sunday talk shows with Senator McCain and military experts pounding their fists to bomb the region, raid the palace of the incompetent Nigerian President and help arm the parents with weapons to fight for the children.

The MSNBC Network covers women issues often  and had several segments on this past weekend discussing the kidnapped Nigerian school girls as well. But in each segment, the reporting slipped in the question of lack of coverage the media has given the kidnapping. MSNBC has devoted hours to pay equality, legislative restrictions on women reproductive rights, numerous GOP gaffes on "rape rape", and has interviewed many women politicians and candidates than most cable channels. With MSNBC championing women rights as fiercely as Fox promotes military muscle against terrorism while CNN break ins with trial updates of cases they have helped sensationalized, women and girls seeking an education kidnapped by terrorists and sold to the lowest bidder should have had MSNBC working around the clock investigating the facts of the story within the first few days of the kidnapping.

With each network, profiling stories should inform and educate the public. As networks have moved into ratings wars vs. informing the public, often the news is cherry picked by what the network executives, producers and hosts think will draw numbers that benefits stockholders not the public. With this form of journalism, stories like Trayvon Martin, Jordan Davis, and now the missing Nigerian schools girls are only given coverage after there is uprising because of the absence of national network interest in reporting the story. Once picked up, deeper scrutiny of the lack of initial coverage is often forgotten until the next outrage breaks on Twitter. When it comes to stories of social injustice, nationally and internationally, we have to wonder will "what comes first the chicken or the egg" continue to be asked about news coverage. At this point, world wide outrage for lack of coverage must trend first on Twitter before a story is covered. Especially, if the stories involve social injustice towards people of color.



Screen shot photos: MSBC, Fox News, CNN

If Missing Nigerian School Girls Were Passengers On A Missing Malaysian Plane

If 234 Nigerian school girls ages 7-17 who were kidnapped was a Malaysian plane with 239 on board that disappeared in the middle of the night here is how the world would have awaken to the news the very next day:

There would have been a scramble for all media outlets to finds a reporter to begin immediate coverage. Never mind experience or credentials, a live feed and a body would have worked until the cable networks had teams on the ground.

The network graphics team would have immediately put up a map to educate everyone where this remote part of the world is for those who never heard of the country.

 Google Earth would have been the go to tool until more feeds from the obscure reporter became part of the cycle for the first full day.

                                                        

Network bookers would have been frantically looking for experts, real and not so real, to discuss probable causes of the why the girls, like the passengers, went missing. The first round of experts would have been to dissect if a terrorists were behind the disappearance. Military experts would sound the alarm that such a thing could happen in name-the-country and the names of terrorists who might be responsible would have been given an in depth storyline within the first few hours. Although the plane did not go missing in U.S., updates from the state department would have been part of the initial coverage. In the case of the missing 234 Nigerian school girls, they were taken by terrorists, Boko Haram, but there has not been an endless cycle of military experts on the networks telling us about this militia and if there are possible cells in the U.S.

Believed to Leader of Boko Haram

Now if the 234 missing Nigerian school girls were a missing Malaysian plane with 239 passengers, Pentagon experts would had weighed in with a hastily assembled press conference. All networks would be on standby throughout the day waiting for any information, accurate or hearsay. With the eyes of the world on the operators of MH 370 and the government at a press conference, officials would want to show their concern and that are doing everything feasible to find out what happened. Network anchors would want to track what is trending on social media to make sure they are asking the questions the world want to hear answered. The tragic news of the missing would be shared and mourned by a worldwide audience. 

Missing Malaysian Plane Press Conference

UNICEF Regional Director for West and Central Africa Region, Manuel Fontaine speaks about kidnapped Nigerian Girls

Because of a worldwide audience, prayerfully, other countries, near and far, would have helped search for the missing Nigerian school girls if they were missing passengers on a Malaysian plane. Countries would have searched their radar to see if  "something" crucial may have been overlooked. The U.S. and other countries would have searched through thousands of terrorists emails for any 'chatter' relating to the incident that may have taken place in prior months. The Nigerian school girls fate and the pain of their families would have been felt. Interviews with families would start to become part of the news cycle. The anguish of parents, spouses, children would have been embedded in the stories as expert after expert continue to give gloom mixed with hope. The viewing audience would have wondered if the missing suffered. The possibility of being of alive would be discussed over and over. Special hash tags for special news segments would have part of the plane coverage by the networks. Prayers would have been openly spoken by anchors as they moved from one topic to the next relating to the 234 missing girls if they were the 239 missing passengers.

If the missing Nigerian school girls were passengers on a missing Malaysian Plane, the need to know what happened to them would have been 24 hour coverage within the first few days. The media's appetite would have been feed by the teams of reporters camped out in hotels (or a remote desert shanty) waiting to report anything. Anything. Cutaway after cutaway to report the smallest detail about the missing would have been part of every news segment. Ships would have poured into roughest seas on earth. Scientist would have shared their knowledge about the depths of the sea. An African desert, like the Indian Ocean, is extremely dangerous. The networks could have filled hours educating the public on geographical boundaries of the desert and how long someone could survive in the heat as they continue to apply pressure from the lens of the world on the government to continue to search for the missing. Planes, private and government, would have flown over barren landscapes as if they were large bodies of water looking for any sign of life. "Show and tell" would have been part of the coverage by allowing cameras to capture every angle of the most advanced technology gear in the scientific community being used to find pieces of the plane, or in the case of the missing Nigerian school girls, evidence that the militia who took them are camped out in the brush in the desert.

 

As the days of searching turned into weeks, investigative reporters would have researched the background of the missing Nigerien school girls if they were missing passengers on a Malaysian plane. The media would have shined the spotlight about previous abductions of girls from schools in Nigeria. Reporters would have landed in small rural villages to interview the villagers with stories of the brutality of men who would do anything to stop women and girls from being educated. Those stories collectively is what happens in remote communities when first world countries look the other way while lawlessness becomes the law of the land. The eyes of the world would have turned to the UN for them to answer why world leaders are not held accountable for the systemic destruction of  people by extremists. The around the clock media coverage would have exposed repeated patterns of atrocities when young women, world wide, seek education for themselves to not only have a chance at a better life but to help change the lives of their fellowman.

If the missing Nigerian school girls had been passengers on a missing Malaysian plane, the urgency to find the pings from the black box before the batteries die would have take center stage. The pings, like the Nigerian school girls' cries from being ravished by monsters, would have been analyzed by manufactures and reporting from a flight simulator would be the lead story every hour on the hour.  In the case of the missing Nigerian school girls, women who have escaped the horrors of being kidnapped from schools and forced into a life of slavery would have replaced the engineers from manufacturers of the black box. Their stories of repeated rapes and abuse would have caused millions to want find evil and cut it out. The experts would have been women like Marcia Dyson whose mission in life is to help women become independent and thriving in their communities. Social media change agents like Luvvie would have added insight to the conversation surrounding the missing the girls. Networks that preach empowerment of women would have owned this story.

Morning Joe's Mika Brzezinskif, author of Knowing Your Value, could have been an expert on how the devaluation of women in the marketplace has roots in how women are treated around the world. Ariana Huffington, who is traveling the country promoting Thrive, could have shared about women pulling themselves up by the boot straps and shown that economic empowerment lectures are not for the educated Ivy League but for women are in a league of their own trying to defend their rights to learn to read and write. CNN, host of CNN Heroes could have easily booked Heroes like, Kakenya Ntaiva, Laurel Stachel, Razia Jan, Jason Kaguri (to name a few) who are live their lives defending social justice, educating women and girls, fighting to end global poverty, and who have risked their own lives to stop sex trafficking of children.

              

"Knowing Your Value" Author Mika Brezinskif 

(Being Devalued)

If the missing Nigerian school girls had been passengers on a missing Malaysian Plane, the lens of the world would have demanded to know why the government is not more transparent in sharing information with the public and the families of the missing. The Malaysian Prime Minister's press briefings about the missing passengers were often times spotty and details were deliberately left out Likewise, Nigeria's leaders were initially vague on the information regarding the missing school girls. Both governments concerns for the lives of the missing have come under fire. And rightly so.

The Malaysian plane with over 239 passengers dropped off the radar on March 8. The search has been intensive and the media coverage non-stop with daily updates still going strong. The world wants to know what happened to everyone on the plane. The lives of those missing on the Malaysian plane are being mourned. We should want to find them to bring closure for their families and love ones.What happened to the plane will haunt us for years to come and we should want to find answers.

Every child is precious. What happens to one, happens to all of us.

 

The 234 Nigerian school girls were kidnapped on April 14, 2014 and the world has just begun to show concern. The lives of the Nigerian school girls are being mourned as well. They are still alive. We should want to find them and bring them home to their families. The men who terrorizes women and children who seek a better life by wanting to learn to read should be hunted down and brought to justice right away. What happened to the Nigerian school girls should haunt us and we should desperately want to find answers to help put an end to these atrocities that continue around the world. May we continue to pray for the girls return.

Photo credits: The Guardian, Reuters, Vanity Fair, Color of Change, CNN, Getty, AP